It is just that there are conditions and there is love. There is really no such thing as conditional love and unconditional love.

When you talk about love, it has to be unconditional. It does not matter how much “I love you” has been said, if a few expectations and requisites are not fulfilled, things will fall apart. I am not saying there is no experience of love at all in those relationships, but it is within certain limitations. But people go on fooling themselves into believing that the relationships they have made for convenience, comfort and wellbeing, are actually relationships of love. If you see this, there is a possibility that you can grow into love as your natural quality. You try to get what you want by saying it.Įvery action that we do is in some way to fulfill certain needs. One of the best ways to fulfill these needs is to tell people, “I love you.” This so-called “love” has become like a mantra: open sesame. People have physical, psychological, emotional, financial or social needs. Generally, we have made relationships within frameworks that are comfortable and profitable for us. She said, “What? You’re leaving? You just said you loved me!” It was getting late in the evening Shankaran Pillai got up and he said, “I need to leave. Nature took over and they had their way with each other. I love you like I have never loved anybody in my life.” He sat there for a while, then went down on his knees, plucked a flower, gave it to her and said, “I love you.

By then she had moved to the very end of the bench. He waited again, and then inched even closer. Again, he waited for a few minutes and inched a little closer to her. After a few minutes, he moved a little closer to her. He went and settled down on the same bench. There was a pretty woman sitting on a stone bench there. One day, Shankaran Pillai went to a park. You fall in love, because something of who you are has to go.

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